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January 5, 2021

Ep 2: A New Year Ritual: Goodbye 2020, Hello 2021

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In this episode of Ease and Grow, I check in and share how I spent my holiday break then I share key learnings I uncovered during my end of year reflecting and 2021 intending. I share some of the responses that I found powerful and how those will inform my 2021. I end with tips and resources for your own New Year ritual for clarity while embarking on your goals and taking brave steps towards them.

Disclaimer: It’s perfectly fine if you’re still digesting and processing 2020! The first new moon of 2021 is on January 13th and new moons are times when the energies of intending and planting new seeds are most ripe. Also, no judgement if it takes you all of January to reflect and intend. The clarity you will gain for the rest of the year is worth this effort and focus on your intentions at the top of the year.

We mentioned:

  • Year Compass
  • Rachel Hollis calendar audit podcast episode
  • Desire Map by Danielle Laporte
  • Career Contessa (latest newsletter)
  • Warm Soul Spotify Playlist for study vibes (also below)
  • Ease and grow instagram – @easeandgrowpod #easeandgrow
  • Ease and grow online home – www.brightlysika.com/ease-and-grow-podcast
ease and grow episode 2 a new year ritual goodbye 2020, hello 2021
John and I went back through our calendars to remember 2020 highlights

If you try this ritual or another New Year ritual, take a picture and tag @easeandgrowpod or use #easeandgrow so I can cheer you on! I’d love to celebrate you. 🥳

We touch on:

Journaling prompts I mentioned:

  • The Biggest lesson I learned was: I can’t burn myself to keep others warm.
  • The most important thing I did for others was: share my voice and show up authentically and vulnerably (helping friends with starting therapy).
  • What am I most proud of? showed up, didn’t isolate, and bravely asked for support.
  • List your 3 biggest challenges
  • What have you learned about yourself while facing these challenges? Important to have a clear WHY in order to feel productive.
  • This year I will say yes when… an opportunity makes me feel giddy and sounds like fun.
  • This year I advise myself to… “analyze less and do what feels right more.”
  • Write your top Feelings for 2021
  • Map out your current energy exertion areas
  • Write out your top priorities for 2021
  • Manifest by writing your action steps for each 2021 goal in present tense.

Tips I shared:

  • Don’t feel pressured to do it all at once
  • Make it your own – focus on YOUR priorities, not just what sounds good
  • Set Realistic Goals – build on frequency and intensity gradually
  • Celebrate Yourself
  • Make it Enjoyable
  • Make it Actionable – dream big then break each goal down into small steps

If you liked this show, I would appreciate if you subscribed and left a review on Apple Podcasts! Or just share the show with a friend. These things really help me achieve my goal of reaching and helping as many people as possible!

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Hey, I’m Sika

Millennial coach, writer, and heart-centered creative obsessed with creating a life that feels good. I like to write about life lessons, mindfulness, relationships, and tips for living an authentic life. You can find me sipping an oat milk latte, practicing yoga, coaching clients, yapping on the mic for Ease and Grow, listening to a podcast or audiobook, taking my 100th personality test, or being a listening ear for a friend. ❤️

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🧡 my latest flower remedy
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They crafted a pitch deck for their app
They took strides to improve their sleep
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They took action towards their goals 
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They set boundaries
They hosted an irl event (self-love in bloom 💖)
They crafted a pitch deck for their app
They took strides to improve their sleep
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They quit an unaligned job and moved into a whole new field
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