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January 5, 2021

Ep 2: A New Year Ritual: Goodbye 2020, Hello 2021

Tune in and subscribe onΒ Apple Podcasts,Β Spotify, orΒ Stitcher.Β πŸ’š

In this episode of Ease and Grow, I check in and share how I spent my holiday break then I share key learnings I uncovered during my end of year reflecting and 2021 intending. I share some of the responses that I found powerful and how those will inform my 2021. I end with tips and resources for your own New Year ritual for clarity while embarking on your goals and taking brave steps towards them.

Disclaimer: It’s perfectly fine if you’re still digesting and processing 2020! The first new moon of 2021 is on January 13th and new moons are times when the energies of intending and planting new seeds are most ripe. Also, no judgement if it takes you all of January to reflect and intend. The clarity you will gain for the rest of the year is worth this effort and focus on your intentions at the top of the year.

We mentioned:

  • Year Compass
  • Rachel Hollis calendar audit podcast episode
  • Desire Map by Danielle Laporte
  • Career Contessa (latest newsletter)
  • Warm Soul Spotify Playlist for study vibes (also below)
  • Ease and grow instagram – @easeandgrowpod #easeandgrow
  • Ease and grow online home – www.brightlysika.com/ease-and-grow-podcast
ease and grow episode 2 a new year ritual goodbye 2020, hello 2021
John and I went back through our calendars to remember 2020 highlights

If you try this ritual or another New Year ritual, take a picture and tag @easeandgrowpod or use #easeandgrow so I can cheer you on! I’d love to celebrate you. πŸ₯³

We touch on:

Journaling prompts I mentioned:

  • The Biggest lesson I learned was: I can’t burn myself to keep others warm.
  • The most important thing I did for others was: share my voice and show up authentically and vulnerably (helping friends with starting therapy).
  • What am I most proud of? showed up, didn’t isolate, and bravely asked for support.
  • List your 3 biggest challenges
  • What have you learned about yourself while facing these challenges? Important to have a clear WHY in order to feel productive.
  • This year I will say yes when… an opportunity makes me feel giddy and sounds like fun.
  • This year I advise myself to… β€œanalyze less and do what feels right more.”
  • Write your top Feelings for 2021
  • Map out your current energy exertion areas
  • Write out your top priorities for 2021
  • Manifest by writing your action steps for each 2021 goal in present tense.

Tips I shared:

  • Don’t feel pressured to do it all at once
  • Make it your own – focus on YOUR priorities, not just what sounds good
  • Set Realistic Goals – build on frequency and intensity gradually
  • Celebrate Yourself
  • Make it Enjoyable
  • Make it Actionable – dream big then break each goal down into small steps

If you liked this show, I would appreciate if you subscribed and left a review on Apple Podcasts! Or just share the show with a friend. These things really help me achieve my goal of reaching and helping as many people as possible!

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Hey, I’m Sika

Millennial coach, writer, and heart-centered creative obsessed with creating a life that feels good. I like to write about life lessons, mindfulness, relationships, and tips for living an authentic life. You can find me sipping an oat milk latte, practicing yoga, coaching clients, yapping on the mic for Ease and Grow, listening to a podcast or audiobook, taking my 100th personality test, or being a listening ear for a friend. ❀️

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So no, it's not irrelevant to listen to episode 23 with our unofficial resident astrologer extraordinaire, @millymichelle 😌

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Nearly 2 months ago, 5 women came together for the inaugural momentum magic group coaching program!

These amazing ladies showed up!

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They crafted a pitch deck for their app
They took strides to improve their sleep
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They got honest with themselves about what's important to them and did it all in community!

It was an honor to lead them week after week. I'll always cherish my cohort 1 bbs πŸ’–

Stay tuned! I just may host another group coaching experience later this year. Dm me if you wanna get in on that action 🫢🏾
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Nearly 2 months ago, 5 women came together for the inaugural momentum magic group coaching program!

These amazing ladies showed up!

They shared openly (no small feat)
They took action towards their goals 
They reflected on limiting beliefs and unhelpful patterns
They set boundaries
They hosted an irl event (self-love in bloom πŸ’–)
They crafted a pitch deck for their app
They took strides to improve their sleep
They pivoted
They quit an unaligned job and moved into a whole new field
They prioritized their health 

They got honest with themselves about what's important to them and did it all in community!

It was an honor to lead them week after week. I'll always cherish my cohort 1 bbs πŸ’–

Stay tuned! I just may host another group coaching experience later this year. Dm me if you wanna get in on that action 🫢🏾
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Nearly 2 months ago, 5 women came together for the inaugural momentum magic group coaching program!

These amazing ladies showed up!

They shared openly (no small feat)
They took action towards their goals 
They reflected on limiting beliefs and unhelpful patterns
They set boundaries
They hosted an irl event (self-love in bloom πŸ’–)
They crafted a pitch deck for their app
They took strides to improve their sleep
They pivoted
They quit an unaligned job and moved into a whole new field
They prioritized their health 

They got honest with themselves about what's important to them and did it all in community!

It was an honor to lead them week after week. I'll always cherish my cohort 1 bbs πŸ’–

Stay tuned! I just may host another group coaching experience later this year. Dm me if you wanna get in on that action 🫢🏾
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These amazing ladies showed up!

They shared openly (no small feat)
They took action towards their goals 
They reflected on limiting beliefs and unhelpful patterns
They set boundaries
They hosted an irl event (self-love in bloom πŸ’–)
They crafted a pitch deck for their app
They took strides to improve their sleep
They pivoted
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They got honest with themselves about what's important to them and did it all in community!

It was an honor to lead them week after week. I'll always cherish my cohort 1 bbs πŸ’–

Stay tuned! I just may host another group coaching experience later this year. Dm me if you wanna get in on that action 🫢🏾
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πŸ“šdrop your fave book reccs in the comments plz πŸ“š

Join in on the fun! We're choosing our first book over the next week and will announce what we're reading in May on 5/2 πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸͺ©

It's open to any and everyone in the dmv area so spread far and wide! We plan to meet irl in nova, tbd depending on how large the group.

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All the deets and form to sign up at the link in bio and dm me with any q's! 😘 

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@shopyerba and I got the idea for this self dev, cozy growth book club back in February during our self love event (So many great book reccs came out of our discussion) and we're doin it!

πŸ“šdrop your fave book reccs in the comments plz πŸ“š

Join in on the fun! We're choosing our first book over the next week and will announce what we're reading in May on 5/2 πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸͺ©

It's open to any and everyone in the dmv area so spread far and wide! We plan to meet irl in nova, tbd depending on how large the group.

Get ready for cozy community, nourishing discussions, and new inspo for improving your life through the books we read πŸ˜ŒπŸ’–πŸŒ±πŸŒΏ

All the deets and form to sign up at the link in bio and dm me with any q's! 😘 

in the meantime, what's YOUR fave self development book? We need inspo for future months!
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the energy and community in the room was unmatched! Black girl magic everywhere you turn πŸ₯°πŸ’• had an amazing time!

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🧠 sometimes you have to take an unlikely opportunity to preserve your autonomy (and your side biz that you want to one day make your main biz)
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🧠 advocates and mentors are invaluable along the way, you don't have to go it alone!

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Felt ✨lucky✨ to catch the final balance black girl live event which kicked off the rebrand of She's So Lucky πŸ€ with an inspiring convo between @lesalfred and @msnewslady the energy and community in the room was unmatched! Black girl magic everywhere you turn πŸ₯°πŸ’• had an amazing time! Some learnings: 🧠 sometimes you have to take an unlikely opportunity to preserve your autonomy (and your side biz that you want to one day make your main biz) 🧠 always negotiate and hold firm to your price πŸ‘πŸΎ 🧠 it's okay to start and stay small for a while when growing your online presence (you have more freedom to find your footing that way!) 🧠 advocates and mentors are invaluable along the way, you don't have to go it alone! As a fan of balance black girl for yearssss, this was so cool to attend πŸ₯° looking forward to the more and more chances to align with cool creative women of color in dc and beyondπŸ’• @shessoluckypod
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[freebie inside] Get ya coaching heeeya!! πŸ™‹πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ

If you're looking for someone to help you:
🌸 gain clarity on your goals
🌸 help you find aligned and fulfilling ways to go after them (that won't burn you out)
🌸 help you process through limiting beliefs and release old stories holding you back

 ----- I'm ya girl! πŸ™πŸΎπŸ₯°πŸ˜ŒπŸ’—πŸ‘πŸΎ

We had such an amazing time in momentum magic (recap post forthcoming) and it rly got me pumped to go deeeeeep into 1:1 coaching so we have plenty of time to create massive momentum and flow with magic along the way βœ¨πŸ’«

The first 2 people who claim it get a free 1-hr coaching session with me on whatever topic is bothering you the most right now.

Coaching can help you shift your mindset on anything but some things I've helped with before include:

- relationships with parents, children, coworkers, strangers
- putting out a new creative project into the world
- getting a new more aligned job
- feeling more hopeful and optimistic after a setback
- struggling with overwhelm, perfectionism, and overthinking 

What area of life is bugging you the most right now? Shoot me a dm and let's chat! 😘
[freebie inside] Get ya coaching heeeya!! πŸ™‹πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ

If you're looking for someone to help you:
🌸 gain clarity on your goals
🌸 help you find aligned and fulfilling ways to go after them (that won't burn you out)
🌸 help you process through limiting beliefs and release old stories holding you back

 ----- I'm ya girl! πŸ™πŸΎπŸ₯°πŸ˜ŒπŸ’—πŸ‘πŸΎ

We had such an amazing time in momentum magic (recap post forthcoming) and it rly got me pumped to go deeeeeep into 1:1 coaching so we have plenty of time to create massive momentum and flow with magic along the way βœ¨πŸ’«

The first 2 people who claim it get a free 1-hr coaching session with me on whatever topic is bothering you the most right now.

Coaching can help you shift your mindset on anything but some things I've helped with before include:

- relationships with parents, children, coworkers, strangers
- putting out a new creative project into the world
- getting a new more aligned job
- feeling more hopeful and optimistic after a setback
- struggling with overwhelm, perfectionism, and overthinking 

What area of life is bugging you the most right now? Shoot me a dm and let's chat! 😘
[freebie inside] Get ya coaching heeeya!! πŸ™‹πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ

If you're looking for someone to help you:
🌸 gain clarity on your goals
🌸 help you find aligned and fulfilling ways to go after them (that won't burn you out)
🌸 help you process through limiting beliefs and release old stories holding you back

 ----- I'm ya girl! πŸ™πŸΎπŸ₯°πŸ˜ŒπŸ’—πŸ‘πŸΎ

We had such an amazing time in momentum magic (recap post forthcoming) and it rly got me pumped to go deeeeeep into 1:1 coaching so we have plenty of time to create massive momentum and flow with magic along the way βœ¨πŸ’«

The first 2 people who claim it get a free 1-hr coaching session with me on whatever topic is bothering you the most right now.

Coaching can help you shift your mindset on anything but some things I've helped with before include:

- relationships with parents, children, coworkers, strangers
- putting out a new creative project into the world
- getting a new more aligned job
- feeling more hopeful and optimistic after a setback
- struggling with overwhelm, perfectionism, and overthinking 

What area of life is bugging you the most right now? Shoot me a dm and let's chat! 😘
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[freebie inside] Get ya coaching heeeya!! πŸ™‹πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ If you're looking for someone to help you: 🌸 gain clarity on your goals 🌸 help you find aligned and fulfilling ways to go after them (that won't burn you out) 🌸 help you process through limiting beliefs and release old stories holding you back ----- I'm ya girl! πŸ™πŸΎπŸ₯°πŸ˜ŒπŸ’—πŸ‘πŸΎ We had such an amazing time in momentum magic (recap post forthcoming) and it rly got me pumped to go deeeeeep into 1:1 coaching so we have plenty of time to create massive momentum and flow with magic along the way βœ¨πŸ’« The first 2 people who claim it get a free 1-hr coaching session with me on whatever topic is bothering you the most right now. Coaching can help you shift your mindset on anything but some things I've helped with before include: - relationships with parents, children, coworkers, strangers - putting out a new creative project into the world - getting a new more aligned job - feeling more hopeful and optimistic after a setback - struggling with overwhelm, perfectionism, and overthinking What area of life is bugging you the most right now? Shoot me a dm and let's chat! 😘
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