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May 11, 2021

Ep 14. For when you feel triggered: Core wound stories and feeling our feelings

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In this solo episode, I come to you raw and freshly in the emotions of being triggered. I share some insights into how I reframed my mindset to feel better and caught the childhood core wound story that it was rooted in (the enneagram 9 core wound). I share insight into my little “T” traumas, unconscious patterns, my approach to therapy, holistic mind-body health, and tips for feeling your feelings (not just intellectualizing them). Most importantly, I encourage you to have compassion for yourself. 

Happy Mental Health Awareness Month! 💕

“Just because I think it doesn’t make it true.”

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  • Call a Friend series intro
  • Call a Friend episode 1 with Eliza Rodrigs
  • Armchair Expert episode with Daniel Goleman (author of Emotional Intelligence)
  • Dr. Nicole Lepara, @theholisticpsychologist
  • Loveland Therapy Fund
  • Mosaic MSC
  • Bling Empire on Netflix

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Hey, I’m Sika

Hey, I’m Sika

Millennial coach, writer, and heart-centered creative obsessed with creating a life that feels good. I like to write about life lessons, mindfulness, relationships, and tips for living an authentic life. You can find me sipping an oat milk latte, practicing yoga, coaching clients, yapping on the mic for Ease and Grow, listening to a podcast or audiobook, taking my 100th personality test, or being a listening ear for a friend. ❤️

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This one is an up close and personal look at how perfectionism shows up for me and how internal family systems work can be extremely helpful for healing the stories that feed into the need to be and do things perfectly.

Stories that say you can't make a mistake or, if you're like me, "it'll be my fault." 

Atim cautions me against looking for a simple 5 step plan to heal perfectionism and encourages a practice to process deep seated emotions that we're scared to feel. We also talk about societal and cultural pressure to be perfect. It's a juicy one!!

Tune in to get tips on dealing with perfectionism and to hear a personal and healing conversation about my own neuroses that stem from the urge to control and manage things a particular way 🙃

Do you identify as a perfectionist? Share your experience in the comments!

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